OK - finally I narrowed it down by scrolling thru collection and taking pictures of the last 50,40,30,20 > files - I deleted it from HDD and now when I browse thru all collection its okey - I will run some test with turntables but I guess that this file was the cause of my this problem and crash.
Allways when it came to this file - which is mp4 in fact - but still I am quite curious why it happened.
Hopefuly I will able to work with everything now and I will never do another recovery until I buy MacBook

Really want you thank all guys for ur support even if this mistake was random somehow and it started working after 7th or 8th recovery.
I am uploading this file so maybe you can tell me what I did wrong:
THANK YOU !!!!!!