Well, I will remain hopeful. I just do not want to spend hours of my time on this

So anyway I think this board is perfect for it. No one wants to point their iTunes folder twice everytime they open Cross.
So here is where I am at, somethings I noticed.
1. I indeed created a fake iTunes library pointed there after opening Cross, then pointed Cross to the the real file and that is when it loads the library.
2. No problems on my PC just my Mac (Maverick and iTunes 11.2.2
3. Does not happen with my other DJ softwares
4. ALSO not sure if its related but I imported Traktor playlists to collection, works nice cue points are all there but when I load that same file through iTunes it loads it like its a new file and analyzes. Worse NO cue points! (but I think this point needs a new topic)