by MusicMeister on 29 Dec 2012, 22:31
Are you using the default location for the database or have you created a new database in an alternative location?
Another possibility is that it's wanting to verify the database you want to use.
At the very top of the area where the playlists and music shows up, there are three dots in a row like this: ...
Click on that and drill to the Library.XML file you use for iTunes and it should show up. You might have to click on the refresh button on the right side of the three dots.
I'm also using iTunes 11.1 on OS X 10.8.2 with Cross 2.2.