Cross DJ Remote for iPad won't connect to Cross DJ Free

Tried Cross DJ Free and like it, except for the airport option in settings doesn't seem to do anything at all.. and neither the forum or manual even mention airplay.
After more than an hour of messing around... the only thing I can figure out... is that airplay doesn't show up in the list when my Apple TVs are powered off... but selecting it when they are on doesn't produce any sound. Guessing it shows in options as an available device... but isn't supported.
I finally decided to just hook up the laptop with HDMI and buy the remote app (for $9.99... holy cow)... and have another hour plus into trying to get that to connect.
I have a brand new Macbook with the latest OS... 10.9
iPad mini with iOS 7.0.4
Cross DJ Free 2.6 with a version of the iPad app bought today
Tried having both on the Apple router WiFi... tried them both in an adhock network like the suggestions in the app... bluetooth is off... both have been rebooted... read all the forums and looked for any tips... etc etc
I am all out of ideas. Any suggestions?
After more than an hour of messing around... the only thing I can figure out... is that airplay doesn't show up in the list when my Apple TVs are powered off... but selecting it when they are on doesn't produce any sound. Guessing it shows in options as an available device... but isn't supported.
I finally decided to just hook up the laptop with HDMI and buy the remote app (for $9.99... holy cow)... and have another hour plus into trying to get that to connect.
I have a brand new Macbook with the latest OS... 10.9
iPad mini with iOS 7.0.4
Cross DJ Free 2.6 with a version of the iPad app bought today
Tried having both on the Apple router WiFi... tried them both in an adhock network like the suggestions in the app... bluetooth is off... both have been rebooted... read all the forums and looked for any tips... etc etc
I am all out of ideas. Any suggestions?